How have I changed in the past 2 years? Hmm.. well 2 years ago, I was 23, working at the church, dating the most wonderful man in the world, and saying farewell to my siblings as they went off to school. Now at 25, I still work at the church, I married that most wonderful man in the world and life is going well. How I have changed...Some lessons I have learned are the importance of enjoying life, the true value of family, the freedom of independence, and let go of the things that don't matter.
Letting things go that don't matter. Basically, those things might matter, but they don't really matter in comparison to what God has planned and in store for your life.
The freedom of independence. This one might sound like the same thing, but there is a freedom in independence. There is also a responsibility and learning to balance the 2 takes some time to learn. For example. I love cereal. I can eat cereal for every meal just about everyday. I am not the biggest fan of eating fruits and veggies...in fact, if given an option between the 2 cereal is easier to fix and tastes better (probably because it's bad for me) Well, I now have the freedom to eat cereal night and day and have no one telling me to do otherwise, however, the repercussions of that decision may be something that I do not like. There for I have the responsibility to take care of myself and make wise choices for myself and not depend on someone else to do it for me. Freedom vs. Responsibility.
The true value of family. Sometimes one doesn't realize what they have until it's gone. I don't mean gone forever, although that too. But since I've been married, and my siblings have moved away, I have learned to value and treasure our times together. I have tried to put aside the frivolities and annoyances so when we look back on those times we don't see an argument or how much we got on each other's nerves, we see us enjoying each other as a family. Oh yeah and my parents have learned so much in the past 10 years! I mean when I was 15 they had "no idea" and just "didn't get it!" but now, they are so smart! How'd that happen?! (LOL ;-D)
The importance of enjoying life. In our society, we live with the never-ending pressure of workaholism and over-achieving to succeed. I have learned that there will always be work to be done or a problem that needs your immediate attention or a deadline that never gives you enough time, but we have to STOP, breath, and MAKE TIME for something we love without feeling guilty for doing whatever it may be. Clear your mind, think about something OTHER than work. Somethings I enjoy...Crafting and creating...when I have something in this area that I'm working on, it helps me get through the work day and actually look forward to going home. I am able to be productive, have fun, and relax all at the same time! ...The Beach. I LOVE the beach! It is my absolute favorite! I could live there. Talk about peace, rest, tranquility, and relaxation! I could go to the beach everyday and never get tired of it! Why? Well, first of all, I love it. Secondly, I don't know why, but I feel God's presence and love when I'm there. Ever heard how people sometimes feel closer to God on a mountain top or on the side of a cliff, that's how the beach makes me feel. I take it as a God-kiss (you know, those times when God does something JUST for you...He created beaches...just for me! and maybe you...I can share. Lol!) I am just in awe at His majestic splendor, His amazing creativity, and just how big He really is! No matter what craziness I have going on in my life, it doesn't come with me when I'm at the beach...unless it's a book. Then it can come. LOL. Realize the importance of enjoying life before you're burnt out on the life you live. And share the wealth, someone you know might not know this secret!
I can't finish out this post without taking a second to brag about how amazing my husband is. He's probably been a part of the biggest change in my life. I love him so much, he's such a hard worker and loves Jesus and loves me. He's very caring and thoughtful. While we still have a lot to learn, I am so blessed to have him as my best friend on this great journey of life. I love you, Ted.
So these are a few of the ways I have changed over the past 2 years...
What changes have you noticed?? Anything significant?
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